Abby Herrick
Sex Educator | Pleasure Enthusiast | Intimacy Instigator | Evidence base lover | Feminist Nerd with Big Heart Energy
Abby is the kind of sex educator who can go from cracking a hilarious anatomy joke to tearing up (gracefully) while talking about how deeply people deserve to feel good in their bodies — and somehow, it never feels awkward.
It just feels true.
She believes pleasure is a human right.
That information is power.
And that shame has no place in a body that’s trying to heal, explore, reconnect, or just be okay with being touched again..
What Abby supports
Abby offers one-on-one sex education sessions (not therapy) for folks navigating:
Sexual pain and intimacy avoidance
Reconnecting to the body after trauma or medical shutdown
Navigating desire, consent, neurodivergence, identity, and sex that doesn’t follow a script
Midlife sexual shifts (hello, peri and post menopause)
Self-pleasure, partner intimacy, and why didn’t anyone teach us this sooner?!
Her sessions are warm, nerdy, inclusive, values-based, and zero-pressure — with no goal other than helping you feel more informed, more empowered, and more you.
Vibe
Big feminist energy. Zero shame.
Loves a well-labelled diagram.
Will cry over the beauty of someone reclaiming their desire — and then hand you a laminated resource about arousal pathways.
Values her clients. Loves her team. Believes we all deserve softness, pleasure, and correct anatomical terminology.
How Abby works
A deep evidence base (yes, she reads the papers so you don’t have to)
An open mind, a generous heart, and a fantastic laugh.
A commitment to accessible, affirming, inclusive sexuality education that centres agency, safety, curiosity, and joy.
Abby’s not here to sell you a “better sex life.”
She’s here to help you define what intimacy, pleasure, and embodiment mean for you — whether that’s solo, partnered, platonic, spiritual, mechanical, awkward, experimental, or anything else.
